To all my incredible women friends out there: this is your reminder, your wake-up call, your invitation. Stop waiting to be “her.” You know who I’m talking about—the version of yourself you envision when you finally lose the weight, find the partner, have the career, or check off whatever milestone is on your list.
Here’s the thing: that vision of “her” isn’t waiting in some distant future, on the other side of an accomplishment or change. She’s already within you. External conditions don’t create the life you imagine—it’s born from the choices you make right now.
Excuses Are Just Delays
How often do we tell ourselves, “I’ll be happy when…” or “I’ll feel confident when…”? These thoughts can feel comforting, even motivating, but they often serve as the perfect excuse not to step into our full power. We convince ourselves that we’re not ready or that our current selves are somehow unworthy of showing up fully.
The truth? You are ready. You are worthy. You don’t need permission from a number on a scale, a title, or a relationship to be the woman you’re destined to be.
Show Up Now
What would it look like if you stopped waiting? If you dressed the way “she” would dress, walked through the world with “her” confidence, and approached your dreams with “her” boldness?
When you start showing up as your future self today, something magical happens. Opportunities begin to align, people are drawn to your energy, and you begin living the life you’ve been waiting for. Why? Because you’re no longer standing on the sidelines—you’re in the game.
You Are Enough
I know it’s scary to step out of the shadows of “someday.” It’s vulnerable to embrace your full potential when you feel like you’re still a work in progress. But let me tell you something: we are all works in progress. Growth doesn’t stop, and neither does life. Waiting for perfection is just another way to hold yourself back.
Action Steps to Be “Her” Today
Identify Your “Her”: Who is the version of you that you’re waiting to become? How does she dress, act, speak, and move through life? Write it down.
Do One Thing Today: Pick one action that aligns with “her.” It could be wearing that outfit you’ve been saving, starting that project, or simply walking into a room with confidence.
Stop the Excuses: Every time you hear yourself say, “I’ll do it when…” stop and reframe it. What can you do right now?
Celebrate Progress: Remember, transformation doesn’t happen all at once. Celebrate every small step you take toward living as your authentic self.
The World Needs “Her”
The world doesn’t need a perfect version of you. It needs the real, raw, beautiful you who is brave enough to show up right now. You don’t need to wait for the weight, the lover, the job, or the perfect timing. You are enough, just as you are, to live fully and boldly today.
So, to all my women friends out there—stop waiting. Be her now.
Are you ready to break free from the excuses and step fully into the life you’ve been dreaming of? Let’s do it together. Whether it’s through mindset coaching, hypnotherapy, or both, I’m here to help you unleash your potential. Show up now. Be her now. Because life isn’t waiting, and neither should you.
With love,
Leigh
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