I think a lot of us have an imaginary starting line. I'll start taking care of myself when things calm down. I'll work on the business when I have more time. I'll set the boundary when things aren't so complicated. I'll start dating when I feel better about myself. I'll finally do the thing when I'm more confident. When the kids are settled. When the money is better. When work isn't so crazy. When I'm less tired. When I know exactly what I'm doing. Then I'll start. Except there's a problem....

Today my husband turns 59. And 29 years ago today, on his 30th birthday, we had a baby. Well…I had a baby. 😂 And biologically, that baby wasn't his. But you would never know it by the way he showed up. That baby is now a 29-year-old man, and somewhere along the way, the two of us went from being young people trying to figure out life to being parents, grandparents, and people who have now spent almost 30 years growing up together. That is crazy to me. When I look back at our life, I don't...

Have you ever promised yourself you were going to do something differently, and then found yourself repeating the same pattern a few days, weeks, or months later? You decide you’re going to stop overthinking. You’re going to set the boundary. You’re going to take better care of yourself. You’re going to stop procrastinating, stop people-pleasing, stop reaching for your phone every time you feel uncomfortable, and finally follow through on the thing you keep saying matters to you. For a while,...