Hope Is Where Strength Begins
- Leigh Kubin

- Feb 10
- 2 min read
Some people think hope is soft.
Like it’s a fragile thing you reach for when life gets hard.
But I’ve come to believe something different.
Hope is not weakness.
Hope is strength in its earliest form.
Because when someone has been carrying emotional weight for a long time; disappointment, regret, self-doubt, heartbreak, and stress... hope is often the very first sign that healing has already started.
Not because everything is perfect…
But because something inside them is still willing to believe:
Maybe this isn’t the end of my story.
The Kind of Strength That Doesn’t Require Force
A lot of people, especially those who have been through hard seasons, think strength means pushing through.
Holding it together.
Staying busy.
Not falling apart.
But real strength doesn’t always look like effort.
Sometimes strength looks like exhaling.
Like letting the nervous system unclench.
Like finally setting down what you were never meant to carry forever.
Sometimes the strongest thing a person can do is allow themselves to heal.
Emotional Baggage Isn’t a Life Sentence
We all carry things.
Old stories.
Old pain.
Moments we wish we could rewrite.
And most of the time, people don’t even realize how heavy it’s become, because they’ve been carrying it for so long it feels normal.
But emotional baggage is not who you are.
It’s just what you’ve been holding.
And the moment you begin to release it…
You create space.
Space for calm.
Space for courage.
Space for something new.
Hope Is Not Pretending
Hope isn’t denial.
Hope isn’t pretending everything is fine.
Hope is quieter than that.
Hope is the steady realization that life can improve.
That you can rebuild.
That you can trust yourself again.
That something better is ahead, even if you can’t see the full path yet.
Hope is the beginning of momentum.
The Butterfly Reminder
One of my favorite symbols of transformation is the butterfly.
Because a butterfly doesn’t rush.
It doesn’t force its way into becoming.
There is a season of stillness…
A season where nothing looks like progress…
And yet, everything is happening.
And then, one day, it emerges.
Not as what it was…
But as what it has become.
That is hope.
That is healing.
That is strength.
If You’re On The Upswing, Notice It
Sometimes progress looks like:
one lighter breath
one calmer morning
one moment of possibility
one small step forward
Those signs matter.
That’s evidence.
That’s the upswing.
And it’s how the next chapter begins.
Ready to Begin Again?
If you’re in a season of rebuilding, releasing emotional weight, learning to trust yourself, and finding your way back to strength and hope, hypnotherapy can be a powerful place to start.
I work with clients to gently shift old patterns, calm the nervous system, and create lasting change from the inside out.
Visit leighkubin.com to learn more or schedule a consultation.
Your next chapter is already forming.
XXOO,
Leigh 🦋


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