Already Living It
- Leigh Kubin

- Sep 1, 2025
- 2 min read
A young man came to see me recently, full of hope and determination. He looked at me with clear eyes and said, “I’m ready to start living my life.”
I smiled and reminded him, gently but firmly: “You’re already living it.”
The moment those words left my lips, I realized I wasn’t just talking to him. I was speaking to myself. I was speaking to you. I was speaking to everyone who sometimes believes life starts later, after the right job comes along, after we find the perfect partner, after we buy the dream house, after everything finally “falls into place.”
But here’s the truth: life isn’t waiting for us. It isn’t holding its breath until we check the next box. Life is happening right now.
The question isn’t when will you start living? The real question is: How are you showing up today? Are you thinking, speaking, and acting in ways that move you closer to the life you say you want? Or are you postponing your joy, your peace, and your power until some future milestone arrives?
Every day we’re creating momentum. Every choice nudges us either closer to our goals or further away. When we realize this, the excuses melt away. The waiting ends. The power returns to us, right here in this very breath.
So ask yourself:
How am I showing up in my conversations today?
How am I showing up in my thoughts about myself?
How am I showing up in the small actions that no one sees but me?
Because those “small” things: that’s your life.
You’re not preparing to live. You’re not on the sidelines waiting for the whistle. You’re already in the game. The only question left is: How will you play today?
If you’re ready to stop waiting and start showing up for yourself right now, I’d love to help you shift your mindset and step fully into your life. Visit leighkubin.com to book a session today.
xxoo,
Leigh







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